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| Love Yourself | Rhinedeals |
The only person at the end will be with you is YOU. You need to acknowledge that you are the one, most important person in your life. In the race of life we neglect and forget about ourselves. If you don't love yourself then who will??
Why it is important to love yourself?
In your entire lifespan, no matter what the situation would be - good or bad, the only person that will stand by your side is YOU. Have you ever tried to understand who is that person that criticize you more in your entire life? - It’s you! So, it is essential that you know yourself well to shape your future. And this can only happen when you try to get closer of yourself.
How to love yourself
So lets discuss how to love yourself in step by step guide -
1. Know yourself
First and foremost thing that you should know before falling is knowing that person. So unless you know someone you can not fall in love. The only twist here is we are not talking about falling in love with another person but to yourself.
Take out time, to know more about yourself like who you are , what are your values, what makes you unique , what have you achieved so far & where you want to see yourself in future.
2. Forgive your mistakes
When you love your family or beloved ones, you forgive their mistakes & give them opportunity to improve. Likewise, you need to give yourself space by forgiving your mistakes & making room for improvements. Remember no one is perfect. You are born to do mistakes & you will do no matter how much expert or how many times you have practiced it. Learn to analyze your mistakes & forgive yourself with one promise that you will improve it next time.'
3. Travel Solo
The best way to give yourself treat & know yourself better is go on solo trips. Trust me you will enjoy your own company!!
Being on such trip will give you ample of time with yourself. You will surely realize your true power which you neglected so long or even not aware off.
4. Say NO
You are not born to make everyone happy. You have to take stand for yourself and it is very much required. If you are not happy with something you have all rights to say NO, you can not work or live with something you are not happy at all.
5. Respect & Love
Surround yourself with people who are with you in all your good and bad times, who motivates you to achieve your goals, who respects you for what you are.
You really need to get disconnected with people who are not good for your mental health and who often abuse or disrespect you. Like everyone else you deserve respect!!
6. Pen it down
Write down your emotions, your thoughts on paper or internet like blog. When you actually start typing the words you will feel the words are actually coming out of your heart. You will get connected more with yourself. Writing your thoughts gives you the magically relief as it gives when you discuss the feelings with your beloved once. The only difference here is no one can judge you & you can freely sum up your thoughts. Read more on how-to-write-blog.
7. Give yourself treat
Its really fun, when you celebrate your own success. Take a time to look at & celebrate what you have achieved and all your rewards. This will not only make you happy but also boost your self-confidence.
When you achieve something, make sure you give pat your back & give yourself a treat which you will like!! For some this looks weird but trust me this will magically make you happy!!
8. Accept
You need to understand and accept that you can not be perfect. There are something that will go wrong. You will always be 'bad' in someone's story. But remember, be honest with yourself & always do what is right
9. Set vision
I am sure, most of you already know what is the purpose of your life. But if you have not even given a thought on the purpose of your life, then you really need to figure it out !!
A life without purpose is a waste. So figure it out, what values you have, what you want to achieve & how will you get there. Knowing what you want in your life will keep yourself in right track & help you to avoid distractions.
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